I saw something the other day on social media about a woman who got dressed up in something akin to formal wear to take the trash out, and I thought to myself, “This isn’t how this works. It’s isn’t how any of this works. “
One of my favorite writers, Anne Lamott, famously said there are three prayers - “Help”, “Thank You,” and “Wow”. Actually she wrote a whole book about it, and I highly recommend it.